So, he wants to “fight” back and ultimately be physically overpowered or restrained. Here’s the fantasy I can’t seem to figure out: Part of what turns him on is being forced into submission. As the dominant, I don’t get as turned on or have explosive orgasms the way I do as a submissive, but I have found a lot of pleasure in fulfilling his fantasies around submission. I never thought I’d be into being dominant, but it’s been really rewarding to switch for me as well.